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dsrtao ([personal profile] dsrtao) wrote2006-02-23 12:51 pm

I'm not alone!

Apparently other people have conversations with their kids the way I do:

http://bioteach.ubc.ca/quarterly/quarterly011/0101mcneil.html

[identity profile] goldsquare.livejournal.com 2006-02-23 06:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I do the same.

But one of the tricks of the "why" conversations is not information exchange. At that age they are learning the art of conversation, and they love the attention and conversation, and "why" prolongs the game.

Teach not just facts. Ask them "what do you think" and draw out the conversation another way.
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[personal profile] tpau 2006-02-23 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)
thatis roughly how my parents always talked to me.

dad = nuclear chemist
mom = linguistics major and languages teacher

made for a highly informed childhood

[identity profile] mama-pipa.livejournal.com 2006-02-24 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
*phew* its not just me then.

though often, after answering a question a few times, my daughter will look at me and say "oh, ok then" and then go off to play.

[identity profile] dauphin1974.livejournal.com 2006-02-24 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I do the answer to "why" for a short while and then ask them why they want to know. Recently this has worked so that I never get "why" anymore.... :-D

[identity profile] cvirtue.livejournal.com 2006-02-26 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Us, too!

[identity profile] metahacker.livejournal.com 2006-02-27 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
I think Fred and/or Noah would get a kick out of this link...